Those quiet days in the luteal phase where you’re listening to your body with such deep attention, searching for signs, whispering what-ifs, and feeling everything more intensely than usual.
And then… you notice a spot of blood.
Your heart sinks. Is this my period coming early?
Or… could this be something else?
Implantation bleeding is a small amount of spotting or light bleeding that can happen when a fertilized egg implants itself into the uterine lining.
This usually occurs about 6–12 days after ovulation, which for many women is right around cycle day 20–26, or week 4–5 of pregnancy (though they might not know they’re pregnant yet).
It can look like:
A pinkish, light brown or rust-colored spot
A single wipe or small streak
Light bleeding that lasts a few hours or up to 2 days (never heavy)
No cramping or only very mild, pulling sensations
It’s usually much lighter than a period and doesn’t follow the same flow or duration.
Implantation bleeding is one of the earliest physical signs that a new life might be settling in. But it doesn’t happen to everyone, and if it doesn’t happen to you, it doesn’t mean you aren’t pregnant.
That’s part of the mystery of this phase.
Some women feel their breasts become full and tender.
Some feel dizzy, or nauseous, or extra tired.
Some notice stronger sense of smell, vivid dreams, or mood swings.
Some feel nothing at all.
There is no one way to be in early pregnancy.
And that’s what makes this phase so hard, and so uniquely sacred for every woman.
There’s a special kind of vulnerability in these early days.
You might be feeling a rush of hope one moment, and the heavy grip of fear the next.
You might be analyzing every twinge, every trip to the bathroom, every symptom (or lack thereof).
You might be wondering, "Am I crazy for feeling all of this?"
No, love. You are just like thousands and thousands of other women right now.
Longing for a baby to be showing signs of their presence.
Listening and interpreting every sign.
This liminal phase, the in-between of not knowing, is wildly uncomfortable for many of us.
We want answers.
We want to know now.
But the feminine path often asks us to wait, to listen, and to trust.
And that’s the practice here: being with the unknown.
Being with the not-yet.
Being with the ache, the wonder, and the big surrender.
It’s okay to feel confused.
It’s okay to grieve if you think it’s your period.
It’s okay to still hold hope.
The best thing you can do is give yourself grace.
Wait a few more days before testing.
Rest, nourish yourself, and know that whether or not this is your baby’s beginning… your womb is listening.
Your body is wise.
And you are not alone.
If you’re walking through this phase—the raw, beautiful, vulnerable and tender time of trying to conceive, the wait between hope and heartbreak—come join us inside The Village.
It’s my private online community of women walking the same path. Whether you’re TTC, newly pregnant, or simply holding space for yourself in the unknown, this is a place to be seen, supported, and reminded that you matter in this tender time.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
👉🏽 Join The Village and share what’s on your heart: sacredbirthinternational.com/the-village
With love and trust in your womb’s wisdom,
Anna 🌙
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